
Environmental
A boundary is not a wall. It is a definition of where your energy goes.
A boundary is not a wall. It is a definition of where your energy goes.
Section I
Where does this boundary live?
Describe the recurring situation in one or two sentences. What actually happens?
What does it cost you each time? (choose one or more)
What have you been saying yes to that you mean no to?
Section II
What do you need instead? Choose the closest.
How firm does this boundary need to be right now?
If the line is crossed after you state it, what will you actually do?
Section III
Adjust the words until they sound like you — calm, not cold.
Section IV


One boundary protects a day. A practice protects a life. Build the full peace practice →